Want to have more orgasms, ladies? This study
says that women who are able to be more aware of their body, and have more erotic thoughts during sexual stimulation, have more orgasms
. Most women, they say, are able to focus those erotic thoughts during masturbation, but those that fail to do the same during sex end up with more difficulty reaching orgasm. Those that are successful all around experience far more "erotological behaviors", which sounds far more clinical than "fantasizing about boning". So, loosen up, ladies: focus, fantasize, and go with the flow, and the orgasms will come naturally!